Two mothers whose daughters took their own lives have called for GPs to have a legal duty to tell families if a patient says they plan to kill themselves.
Issy Phipps, 17, from Cookham, Berkshire, and Sophie Woolcott, 27, from Poole, Dorset, died at their homes in April 2023 and February 2024.
Sophie’s father Steve contacted Issy’s mother Sarah Renton after he saw her interviewed on South Today last year and was struck by the similarities between the cases.
They had planned to meet to talk about campaigning for a change in the law, but Steve suffered a heart attack and died earlier this year, on the first anniversary of Sophie’s death.
In 2023, 17-year-old Issy Phipps told her GP in Gloucestershire, where she was a student, that she planned to take her life.
She also spoke to a mental health nurse, but no medical professional contacted her next of kin and a referral was never followed through.
A day later, she died at her family home in Cookham.
“You have all these questions and later you find out that she did try to get help, she went to her GP,’ said Issy’s mum, Sarah.
“Everybody I’ve spoken to is incredulous that you wouldn’t make someone safe when they’ve expressed what they’d planned to do.”
Both Gloucestershire and Berkshire health trusts carried out internal reviews in the wake of Issy’s death.
Twenty-seven-year-old mum-of-three Sophie Woolcott, from Poole, had a long history of mental health conditions, including borderline personality disorder.
In February last year, her family said she went to her GP surgery to ask to see a doctor, saying she was suicidal and needed a change to her medication.
They said she was told that no one was available to see her, and after experiencing a manic episode she was told to leave the surgery.
Having walked three miles from her home to try to get an appointment, she then walked home again, and later that day she took her life.
“I mean, the fact she had done that walk to get help just tells us everything we need to know,” Sophie’s sister, Justine Woolcott, said.
“She just desperately wanted to get the help, she wanted to live.”
A spokesperson at The Adam Practice in Poole said: “We are unable to comment on individual cases.
“GP practices have a duty to protect patient confidentiality, including after a person has passed away.”
In the wake of his daughter’s death, Sophie’s father Steve started a petition to change the law, so doctors legally have to “tell parents if their child threatens suicide to a doctor”.
The two families are now jointly calling for legislation to be brought in to help prevent similar cases in the future.
The Department of Health and Social Care said: “We sympathise with the pain and anguish felt by bereaved families who have lost a loved one to suicide.
“GPs already have a duty to share information where patients lack the mental capacity to consent, where it is considered to be in the person’s best interest to do or where it may be in the public interest, for instance if the method of suicide could cause potential serious harm to others.
“Ultimately, GPs must balance the importance of patient confidentiality with the urgent need to prevent suicide.”
‘Common sense’
Speaking to the Woolcott family after the brought them together to meet for the first time, Sarah Renton explained why she thought the current guidelines were wrong.
“I think the thing that your husband wanted is just common sense,” she told Justine and Sophie’s mum, Amanda.
“How do you make these people safe? Well family is nearly always the best place for that,” she said.
Amanda Woolcott is hopeful that a change in the law could be a lasting legacy for the families’ two daughters.
“If we can do something that can stop it happening to somebody else – in their name you’ve stopped them going through what we’re going through – then that’s job done.”
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